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On the subject of punishment
First off punishment is not to be confused with S&M play. S&M is for “enjoyment” - by definition, “play” is typically enjoyed by one or both parties. Therefore if punishments are consequences of violating rules or otherwise displeasing the submissive’s Dominant, then punishment should be cold, to the point, and not enjoyable by the submissive. In most cases the Dominant will not enjoy it either. It is the Dominant’s wish that their submissive would have obeyed. Conversely a Dominant should not abuse the philosophy behind what a punishment is and what it represents. If the Dominant wants to play, then play, but don’t make up something to punish the submissive. A Dominant, who uses punishments as a way to play S&M, is likely to cause the submissive even more stress and confusion.
Punishment is something the submissive should want to avoid. There are many that believe a submissive will “purposely” act out to get punished. There are several different reasons why a submissive may act out on purpose. They may only want a play-partner S&M relationship or they may be acting out to get punished because the submissive’s needs are not getting met. Often times they do not know how to communicate their needs to the Dominant.
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CERTIFIED CLASSIC RE-BLOG.
… and wait she did.
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oh goodness…
Lily, she is to me what James Deen is to most women right now.
